"how can just one other person be your all in all, rescue you every time you feel unsafe, make you feel secure at all times and meet your every emotional need."
"Finding out about an affair can be a very devastating experience for the partner who is being cheated on. It often triggers them to question the entire foundation of their romantic relationship and wonder whether there was ever any truth in anything their partner said to them."
There are fundamentally two kinds of conflict in a marriage: Solvable problems and Perpetual issues. It helps if couples realize this and deal with it in a healthy manner.