"We all have unique patterns of expressing hurt, anger, sadness, disappointment, resentment or rage during a fight. Sometimes these emotions can erupt intensely only with our spouse and no other human on earth"
"Our culture has a large role to play in how we view love and giving. This applies to love not only in romantic relationships but also in how we interact with friends and family."
"The value of healthy open communication in any relationship, especially a marriage, can never be overstated. Prolonged communication problems between spouses can end up seriously damaging a relationship as neither partner truly understands what the other is like."
"The good news is that it is always possible to improve our marriage and make it even stronger by simply becoming aware of each other’s most important emotional needs, those needs that brought us together in the first place, and then learning how to meet them."
"how can just one other person be your all in all, rescue you every time you feel unsafe, make you feel secure at all times and meet your every emotional need."
"Finding out about an affair can be a very devastating experience for the partner who is being cheated on. It often triggers them to question the entire foundation of their romantic relationship and wonder whether there was ever any truth in anything their partner said to them."
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